already found a solution, works for me and i want to share it here:
disabled slow mirrors via settings → Repositories (Paketquellen) → F-Droid (first repo) → official mirror servers → disabled the first ones here and left only those active, that are close to my location.
I dont want to use a client. I dont have any need for it. I can get the apks from site.
So, who is the bandwidth provider, webhosting company? Do you pay for this or it is given free? If paid, please change the company. You waste cash on bad service provider.
Not using the client helps the servers for not constantly checking for app updates.
I see that others have problems with client, so no point in using it.
Another mention, this forum software lags 30 seconds for opening a thread. Have to reload multiple times to make the replay button work to post a message. Typing one is another pain, it takes seconds for a single character submission. With js turned off, forum loads fast in 1-2 seconds, but you cant send/post messages. Flarum is way faster and better optimised.